Mill Creek Entertainment has released a Blu-ray double feature of "Dad" starring Jack Lemmon and "I'm Not Rappaport" starring Lemmon's long-time pal and frequent co-star Walter Matthau. Of the two, "Dad" is the vehicle that was aimed at mainstream audiences, while "Rappaport" seems to have been created for its intended audience, the big city art house cinema crowd. "Dad" stars Lemmon, playing older than his actual years, as Jake Tremont, a retired blue collar worker who resides with his wife, Bette (Olympia Dukakis). Like most older couples, the Tremonts have long adjusted to a routine lifestyle. In this case, Bette wears the pants in the household, to coin an old phrase. She loves and cares for Jake, but displays all the warmth of a Marine drill instructor, as she orders her meek husband about and makes virtually every decision. Jake is comfortable with this, as he is a low-key guy who long ago decided to allow Bette to establish a matriarchy in the household. When Bette is stricken by a heart attack and hospitalized, Jake is a like a fish out of water. His somewhat estranged son John (Ted Danson), a high-powered self-employed financier, has to reluctantly leave his workaholic lifestyle to look after Jake, with some limited assistance from his sister (Kathy Baker), who is busy raising her own family. In a predictable fashion, the high-strung John tries to connect with his father and bridge the chasm between them that has existed for decades. However, when Jake suffers his own medical problems, John takes a leave of absence, moves in permanently and gallantly assumes all of the household duties as well as medical care for his ailing father. The surprise arrival of his own estranged son Billy (Ethan Hawke), who adores his grandfather, gives the male family members the opportunity to patch up old feuds even while they deal with the deteriorating conditions of Jake and Bette.
There's a lot more to the tale than the above synopsis but we wouldn't
want to divulge spoilers. "Dad" was the feature film directorial debut
for Gary David Goldberg, who also wrote the screenplay (based upon
William Wharton's novel) and produced, as well. Goldberg was primarily
known for directing TV sitcoms and that experience comes close to
undermining the dramatic impact of "Dad", with some over-the-top cutesy
scenes that are straight out of a Hallmark Channel TV movie. However,
Lemmon's marvelous performance serves as an anchor for the main plot and
all of the supporting cast members (including Kevin Spacey) give
impressive performances. Most of all, the movie speaks truth to anyone
who has had to face the seemingly insurmountable challenge of caring for
an aging parent. "Dad" is at times mawkish but in the end, its
attributes outweigh its flaws.